Friday, April 15, 2011

i have had a lot of people tell me that people were asking why the funeral and everything was in snowville, well since nobody has the nerve to as me...i will answer!

Jason always wanted to be cremated...but when it came down to it i couldnt do it...i needed a place to go visit him...n i needed some kind of closure, where as if he was cremated i would have him sitting on my mantle/shelf and take him with me throughout my life, and that would be more difficult that what i am dealing with now....

so tuesday night i laid in the chair with jason for about 3+ hours, talking about it...asking questions, telling him my thoughts.... and he agreed that being buried in snowville, next to my younger brother would work great....

we never talked about it before tuesday {except him saying he wanted to be cremated} we never planned on this being the outcome of our battle...we planned to {and did} fight until the end, working on a miracle...


  1. You did the right thing. My sister lost her husband, of nine months, suddenly and let the in-laws bury him in Salem, UT. After many legalities including getting the state attorney general involved she had him moved where she could visit him and work through things. You need him in Snowville where you can go easily.

  2. Snowville is a wonderful place. You and Jason made the right decision together. He will always be there with you, which is a comforting thing for me. Jeff helped me realize this today, because I've been having such of a hard time. I should probably stop righ there, anyways, I'm glad you didnt cremate him.

  3. You did the right thing my Love! You needed to do what is best for you.

    Love you! thinking about you today watch some toy story 3 it will make you feel better .... be strong

  4. You moved on quickly.... now no one visits my friend...he lived his whole life in cache calley.... ironic?

    1. I don't know who you are. But I feel bad for you n the anger you have towards me n the decision jason n I made with him being buried in Snowville. I didn't move on, I learned to live without my husband, how dare you place judgement on me. I don't understand what is ironic about the situation. N hope that you never have to go through what I have been through. I hope you find peace and understanding in your life soon.